There are many guys who always make blunders in approaching girls due to their shyness or past experiences. And there are some guys who used to believe that approaching girls is a bad thing and morally we should not do it. In both categories, your mind set does not allow you to approach any girl. However, you can think it in different way. Rather than thinking about approaching girlfriend, you can think to make new friends. It would sound better that you have friendship with girls instead of dating them. You don’t find any problem in this mindset and then you can be more comfortable with talking girls and approaching them for friendship.
Girls don’t find it offensive when guys ask them for a friendship. This is a fact that girls prefer those guys as a life partner who isone of their good friends. So try to pick the girls for friendship rather than dating as eventually it would bring the satisfied outcomes. Therefore, one needs to see the abilities to pick the girls for friendship. Before actually starting, just set your goal and mindset that what you want to do. Be confident in approaching conversation with girls as it matters a lot. Just see yourself as a successful person to be friend with women. Don’t take other's view of yourself seriously. You need to disregard what other think of you and have to concentrate on your specific goal that is to have friendship with girls.
You can condition yourself strongly for this aim so that you would find yourself at ease even after get rejected by girls. If someone rejects you, take it positive and get closer to success and your goal. But you don’t have to quit trying for this as no one can know that previously how many attempts you made. If you quit trying then you can never get the girlfriend. If you take picking up girls and approaching them as a fun then you would easily do this. The first thing is that the perceptions as well as opinions of women should never bother you. You just have to stick at your specific goal to have friendship with women. If women's opinions bother you then eventually it would create imagined and unreal fears that will shatter your confidence level. Once your confidence level becomes low, then you can never approach the girls for friendship in future.
The important thing is to have a proper plan what you are going to ask, how to flirt and tease the girl and how to enjoy your time while chatting with girl. You must have pre-planned conversation in your mind and be ready for action. It allows you to boost your confidence level in approaching girls. Girls always get attracted by the guys who seem to be confident and out-spoken. Therefore, rehearsingconversations before make you a perfect guy with appealing talking style. In this way, you can have friendship with girls and can have many new friends.